Teenagers

How to protect a teenager from drugs

How to protect a teenager from drugs

Teenagers
Every parent worries about his child, this is a natural state, he always wants his own child to grow up to be obedient and worthy, and even more so that the child should avoid bad addictions, especially narcotic, because, as is known, getting rid of it is then very difficult , And the damage it does to the body is very strong. How to try to protect your child from drugs, is it possible at all, because you can not always be near your child, especially when the child enters adolescence and becomes more independent. Tips for parents who will help protect the child from drug dependence First of all, you need to talk about drugs. It's not enough to say that this is bad for a child - it means nothing, he needs arguments. Do not avoid this topic. In any case, the existence of drugs sooner or la...
How to get rid of acne on the face of a teenager

How to get rid of acne on the face of a teenager

Teenagers
Adolescence is incredibly difficult from a psychological point of view. It was during this period established the identity of the young man or girl. Teens tend to think of everything that happens very sharply, making the tragedy of literally everything. Parents are very important to understand that this period is necessary just to survive, surrounding the grown child maximum care and attention. If you experience any problems related to psychological or health, you need to react immediately. The real tragedy for a teenager can be a presence of acne. The juvenile period is characterized by extremely critical perception of their appearance because acne or even individual internal subcutaneous acne can create serious adolescent complexes. Causes of Acne It is important to understand that in ...
The child feels ugly: what to do?

The child feels ugly: what to do?

Teenagers
In the world has its own beauty, even the seemingly unsympathetic man can be a very pleasant and charming. It would seem that it is clear truths that do not require explanations and evidence. In general, yes! But not for everyone.Adults having experiences, beliefs, their view of the world can talk for hours about that ugly people do not exist, that each is incorporated something special, but with teenagers completely different situation. Watching Hollywood movies, photo shoots of stars, they begin to hate themselves for what they are not yet perfect, the girls and the boys "on the cover." Many of them hate themselves so that flow from this depressed, try to experiment on their appearance. What to do if your child feels ugly? How to help him get rid of teenage complexes? Why does a chil...
Children’s secrets: how to respond to parents?

Children’s secrets: how to respond to parents?

Teenagers
Sooner or later, every child has secrets. But whether he is entitled to it? It often happens that parents, knowing that the child was hiding something, trying, by all means, to find out from him what had happened. But whether it is necessary to do so? First, you need to take into account the fact that children do love mystery. The secret they can do nothing. For example, a child may have something to hide, and the main thing that no one knew about it - and this is a secret. It often happens that even the most open children tell parents not all. But for every parent, your child's important to see through, and know that he did not hide from them. After all, what are the mystery and the ability to hide it, in their opinion, may appear in a child, not earlier than in adolescence. Althoug...
Parenting a teenager: a father to earn credibility?

Parenting a teenager: a father to earn credibility?

Teenagers
The acquisition of his father's authority in the eyes of a child, and especially the student - a very complex process. father's relationship with the children, mothers, to work his skills - all part of his authority. But what is the authority of his father, and how to win it? For the son of his father - a kind of an example, a model to follow. Without father or an equivalent male boy would not understand a responsible attitude to the family, to recognize the man as protector and guardian. The girl perceives the relationship between the mother and father as a model or even a script for his future family life. Almost unconsciously she matured, she begins to look for a wife, like his father. Father helps the girl to behave more appropriately with the boys, to form a stable self-esteem. ...
How to overcome the crisis in relations with teenager

How to overcome the crisis in relations with teenager

Teenagers
Many parents are afraid of adolescence. It seems that no age is not honored so many horror stories and myths as this. Meanwhile, observing the simple rules of communication with your own child, this period may be the key to a strong future relationship when the son or daughter will be your reliable support. 1. A teenager requires a special approach, which differs from the approach to the younger students. Only respect and dialogue on an equal footing. Orders should stay in the past. 2. Often, the teenager begins to demand to allow him too much - coming home after an hour of the night, wearing earrings in all parts of the body or to make a tattoo, get out of the room in its sole discretion, etc. Thus he defends his private space and freedom - the natural desire of a teenager. Agree with...
5 signs that your child has low self-esteem

5 signs that your child has low self-esteem

Teenagers
How to improve the child's self-esteem? We may think that praising a child enough to form his self-confidence, but this is not enough. No matter how we cheered for our children, their self-esteem can be low. Our responsibility in the upbringing of children, as parents, to notice signs that the child has low self-esteem, understand where it came from self-doubt and help him cope with this problem. Note the 5 most flashy signs that your child has low self-esteem. 1. It does not take compliments Children with low self-esteem can not take a compliment because they do not believe that's true. They respond to praise, not agreeing, shaking his head or rolling his eyes (or, sometimes, both). 2. He avoids calling Your child is trying to avoid problems, not even trying to solve it? Or refuse at...
5 themes that are sure to discuss with your teen

5 themes that are sure to discuss with your teen

Teenagers
All parents want the child has grown a successful and self-sufficient person. Someone strenuously reads tips on how to grow a millionaire, someone places an emphasis on financial literacy, someone - to study. In the fight for a place under the sun, all means are good. And start preparing for life is necessary from childhood, and then move to a new "Level" in adolescence. There are five important topics about which parents should definitely talk to a teenager. Give them time to the greatest. RELATIONS Perhaps this is one of the most difficult topics to discuss with anyone, especially with a teenager. Relationships are different: personal, friendly, professional, intimate, spiritual, emotional. And of the children will understand all these "levels", depends on how the rest of their lives.
What do young people in social networks

What do young people in social networks

Teenagers
We used to think that teenagers rarely extend beyond the interests of music, gadgets and computer games. It's hard to say why we "shifts one size fits all" all the younger generation. Such a generalized view prevents parents from taking a closer look at the interests of the child and helping him develop natural talents. The educational project GoTo decided to find out what young people are interested in reality. The researchers analyzed 100,000 random profiles 15 and 18-year-old users of social networks Vkontakte, has made a rating of 100 most popular communities, which are signed by the users, and to decide how changing interests of teenagers as they grow older. The main terms of the communities included in the top 100, can be attributed to the categories: humor, attitude, life hack
You want to help a teenager? Hear it

You want to help a teenager? Hear it

Teenagers
One of the biggest mysteries in the relationship between parents and adolescents: who is busy and the child, when he is not with us? Sometimes we are very interesting. Sometimes we would prefer nothing about it know. Children and adolescent psychologist Lawrence Cohen states: "In the life of the child, as in any other, there are both good and bad. Parents can not always help the child. But support, give strength - can ". Psychologists asked the children: "How adults can help you in your relationships with your friends?" The answer was discouraging. "Certainly not." But when asked, "What have you ever helped the adults?" - The answer was quite different. "I heard." Once scientists recommend listening to, let us listen. But how to push children to a frank discussion about their lives and a...