All parents want the child has grown a successful and self-sufficient person. Someone strenuously reads tips on how to grow a millionaire, someone places an emphasis on financial literacy, someone – to study. In the fight for a place under the sun, all means are good. And start preparing for life is necessary from childhood, and then move to a new “Level” in adolescence. There are five important topics about which parents should definitely talk to a teenager. Give them time to the greatest.
Perhaps this is one of the most difficult topics to discuss with anyone, especially with a teenager. Relationships are different: personal, friendly, professional, intimate, spiritual, emotional. And of the children will understand all these “levels”, depends on how the rest of their lives. Relationships can make people happy or may destroy his happiness. Even if the parents a wealth of experience in the issue of the relationship, for teens this may not matter. Although, if they listen to them, their life would be much easier. Yes, sometimes the best teacher – their own mistakes. But still, need to talk with young people about how to create and develop healthy relationships. This is a very sensitive issue, so you should learn to speak with the teenager so that he heard you.
RESPECT FOR YOURSELF AND OTHERS
Respect is to talk to children from an early age. Of course, when the child is 6 years old, this theme sounds different from when he was 13 or 14. Respect for self and others depend on the understanding that man himself leads his life. Explain to the adolescent that, allowing people to use it, it will not be able to grow and develop. Also, talk with your child about who he is and why the differences between people – just different, and if a person is another growth or color, it does not mean that it is better or worse. Teach your teen to see and accept people as they are, without judging. So it is possible to increase the respect for themselves and others.
Education, not only the formation, is important. In adolescence, children have time to think about what they want to do when they grow up, to which want to enter university and on other issues of the future. Many countries have already started since high school “study” various options, children are given the opportunity to find themselves and to be better prepared when the time comes to enter the higher education institution. Parents should encourage teens to they attended public lectures, internships, and other opportunities. But also explains that learning does not end with graduation. Education – a way of life.
In today’s world, children and adults need the ability to handle money. Parents can really help young people by developing the skills of financial literacy and financial habits. Talk with your teen about finances will protect it from the mass of headaches in the future. Talking about money is never too early. Start with a savings account. Suggest saving half of any income or cash gifts. A teenager who knows how to handle money, understand their value. At this age, you can tell your child’s bank accounts, savings, loans cash and cashless payment.
Generosity, honesty, gratitude, respect, tolerance, faith, care, diligence, perseverance, consistency – the list goes on. These values should parents teach a child from an early age, but young people understand them more holistically. Parents can explain to teenagers that those who hold a strong value system, have better self-esteem, develop respect for others, have a clear vision of what they need to do to be more effective in communicating and know how to build a healthy relationship. In fact, the values are the foundation on which a thriving, progressive and growing company.